21/ 11 / 2009
जीवन और मृत्यु
हम इस जागतिक सागर मे लहर मात्र है/ इस भाव को अपने भीतर खूब गहरे उतरने दो/ अपनी श्वास को उठती हुई लहर की तरह महसूस करना शुरू करो / तुम सांस लेते हो ; तुम सांस छोड़ते हो / जो सांस अभी तुमाहरे अन्दर जा रही है वह एक क्षण पहले किसी दूसरे की सांस थी / और जो सांस अभी तुमसे बाहर जा रही है वह अगले क्षण किसी दूसरे की सांस हो जाएगी / सांस लेना जीवन के सागर मैं लहरों के उठने - गिरने जैसा ही है / तुम अलग नहीं हो ,बस लहर हो / गहराई मे तुम एक हो / हम सब इकठे हैं , संयुक्त हैं / वैयक्तिता जूठी है , भ्रामक है / इसीलिए अहंकार एकमात्र बाधा है / वैयक्तिता जूठी है , वह भासती तो है , लेकिन सत्य नहीं है / सत्य तो अखंड है , सागर है, अद्वैत है /
यही कारण है की प्रत्येक धर्म अहंकार के विरोध मे है / जो व्यक्ति कहता है की इश्वर नहीं है , वह अधार्मिक नहीं भी हो ,लेकिन जो अहंकारी है वह अवश्य अधार्मिक है / धर्म के लिए निरहंकार जरुरी है ,बुनियादी है / और अगर तुम इश्वर मे विश्वास भी करते हो, लेकिन अहंकार भरे मन से विश्वास करते हो तो तुम अधार्मिक हो / अहंकार-रहित मन के लिए इश्वर मे विश्वास की भी ज़रूरत नहीं है; निरहंकारी होकर तुम लहर से चिपके नहीं रह सकते हो ; तुम्हे सागर मे गिरना ही होगा / अहंकार ही लहर से चिपका रह सकता है/ जीवन को सागर की भांति देखो और अपने को लहर मात्र समझो /
हमारी समस्या क्या है? समस्या यह है की लहर अपने आप को सागर से अलग मानती है / और अगर लहर अपने को सागर से अलग मानेगी तो उसे तुरंत या देर-सबेर मृत्यु का भय उसे अवश्य घेरेगा / लेकिन अगर लहर जन ले की मैं नहीं हूँ,सागर ही है तो उसे मृत्यु का कोई भय नहीं रह जायेगा / लहर तो मरती ही है , लेकिन सागर हमेशा-हमेशा ही रहता है / मै या तुम मर सकते हैं ; लेकिन जीवन नहीं मर सकता / अस्तित्व नहीं मरेगा , अस्तित्व तो लहराता ही जाता है / वह तुममे लहराया है ; वह दूसरों मे भी लहरा रहा है / और जब तुम्हरी लहर बिखर रही होगी, तो संभव है तुमाहरे बिखराव मे से ही दूसरी लहरें उठें / सागर हमेशा रहता है /
जब तुम अपने को लहर के रूप में अलग देख लेते हो और सागर यानि अरूप के साथ एक जान लेते हो ,एकात्म अनुभव करते हो , तो फिर तुम्हरी मृत्यु नहीं है / अन्यथा मृत्यु का भय होगा , प्रत्येक पीड़ा में , प्रत्येक संताप में ,चिंता में मृत्यु का भय मूलभूत है - चाहे तुम्हे इसका बोध न भी हो , लेकिन अपने अंतस में प्रवेश करोगे तो इसे पाओगे ही , तुम थर-थर काँप रहे हो , क्योंकि अहंकार के कारन तुम मरने वाले हो / तुम अनेक सुरक्षा के उपाय कर सकते हो , लेकिन कोई उपाय कम नहीं देगा ; धूल धूल में जामिलेगी /
कभी तुम को यह ख्याल आया की अभी तुम जिस रस्ते पर चल रहे हो , और जो धूल तुमाहरे जूते पर जमा हो रही है , हो सकता हो वह धूल किसी नेपोलियन , किसी हिटलर , किसी सिकंदर के शरीर की धूल हो / और यही हाल हम सबका होने वाला है / देर-सबेर धूल धूल मे मिल जाएगी , लहर विदा हो जायेगी / दो चीजें सदा याद रखना , रूप सदा लहर है और अरूप सागर है - रूप मृण्मय है , अरूप चिन्मय है , शाश्वत है/
और ऐसा नहीं है की तुम किसी दिन मरोगे , तुम प्रतिदिन मर रहे हो / बचपन मरता है, जवानी जनम लेती है / फिर जवानी मरती है और बुढ़ापा जन्मता है , और फिर बुढ़ापा भी मरता है और रूप विदा हो जाता है / प्रत्येक क्षण तुम मर रहे हो -हर बाहर जाने वाली सांस के साथ ; प्रत्येक क्षण तुम जन्म ले रहे हो - हर अन्दर आने वाली सांस के साथ / यह आपका पहला जनम नहीं है और न ही पहली मृत्यु होगी / तुम पहले भी जन्मे थे , पहले भी मरे थे , और न जाने यह चक्र कब तक चलेगा / तुम्हरा एक अंश मरता है ; दूसरा अंश जन्मता है / शरीरशाश्त्री कहते हैं की सात वर्षों मे तुमाहरे शरीर का कुछ भी पुराना नहीं बचता ; एक-एक चीज़, एक-एक कोष्ठ बदल जाता है / अगर तुम ७० साल जीते हो तो , आपका शरीर दस बार बदल जाएगा , वह भी पूरा का पूरा / यह परिवर्तन कोई अचानक नहीं होता , प्रत्येक क्षण हो रहा है /
तुम एक लहर हो और लहर को सतत बदलते रहना है , सतत गतिमान रहना है/ सागर सत्य है , ब्रह्म है / लहरें जनम लेती हैं ,विदा लेती हैं / यह चक्र ऐसे ही चलता रहेगा / एक ही इलाज किया जा सकता है -वह है इस लहर-रूप का साक्षी होना / और एक बार साक्षी हो गए तो अचानक उसका बोध हो जायेगा जो लहर के पार है ,जो लहर के पीछे है , जो लहर मे भी है लहर के बाहर भी है ,जिससे लहर बनती है और जो फिर भी लहर के पार है ; जो सागर है /
आँख से जो देखा जा सकता है वह रूप है ,और रूप को मिटना ही है- मृण्मय है / केवल अरूप शाश्वत है - चिन्मय है /
संत कबीर ने सही कहा है :
' राम मरे तो मैं मरूं , नहीं तो मरे बलाय,
अविनाशी का बालका मरे न मारा जाए /
' राम नाम सत्य है , बाकी सब माया है ( माया यानि जो नहीं है लेकिन सत्य की तरह भासती है )
प्रस्तुत कर्ता: के .के.शर्मा
Friday, November 20, 2009
Problems, myths and facts of presen day life
M.Sc. (Chem.), A.T.A. (Tex. Chem.), D.I.E.M. (Apparel)
URL: Krishnanand101.blogspot.com
E-mail: kksharma1469@yahoo.co.in
(Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is mystery. And today? Today is a gift of Cosmos. That’s why we call it Present. So start living in present and feel the wonder’s in your life.)
12/ 11/ 2009
PROBLEMS, MYTHS AND FACTS OF PRESENT DAY LIFE
Hi Friends,
Allow me to discuss problems, myths and facts of modern day life. I know everybody wants joys of life but unless and until we increase our understanding problem, myths and facts are going to remain as it is. I don’t claim anything; I just want your valuable time and a humble request to read this ‘Essay’ unto last. While reading one thing should be kept in mind- (a) All things are subject to interpretation; whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth (b) present day society is living with mind and forgotten heart completely. (c) I am not talking about what the society should be, I am talking about where we have reached. You may feel that things have been exaggerated beco’z we are the part of the same society and every mind thinks differently. It is easy to deny but require courage to accept the reality. And when reality is accepted in its naked totality, then only one can think of change otherwise who wants to disturb his dreams – and our ugly master ‘MIND’ does not believe in change- its trinity is ‘habit – repetition – and subconscious.’
Sigmund Freud has said, “Modern man takes birth with an already sick mind and at the maximum he can be made a normally mad person but can not be cured fully of his insanity.” But Indian wisdom does not agree with him and declares that man does not take birth as a sick minded person but he definitely takes birth in a sick society. And environment of the present society, community, modern education, morality, organized religion and market based culture turns him into a person with sick mentality. When he crosses certain norms and limits he becomes fully mad and mental asylum is the only answer, where he/ she can be treated to return his normally mad status – so that he becomes fit to live in the same society and so again can become fully mad or to commit suicide.
Indian wisdom says that this madness is the result of the deep division of his personality. Present day man is not a single individual but 2 or more persons are residing in his single body or ‘Split Personality’. And always there is a continuous fight going on between the different personalities of the single person. Present day person has broken his bridge with the ‘Heart’ and identified himself totally with the mind and living from the ‘Mental Centre’ and so has become normally mad person as defined by Sigmund Freud.
When a child is born he is living from heart mechanism and that is the reason a child is innocent, beautiful, radiant and with overflowing joy. But present day man systematically locks the heart and destroys the key and learns the cunning and artificial mind’s language and games. All other living species are natural and normal and live with laws of ‘Cosmic Energy’ except most developed mind human beings. Why?
Cosmic Energy manifests itself in many forms of life. According to Indian wisdom in 84,00,000 forms but according to science in approximately 90,00,000 forms but immediately adds that ‘Indian Wisdom’ may be more correct.
Human beings is one form out of 84,00,000 species, so in the eyes of existence there is no qualitative difference but only quantitative difference as same cosmic energy is flowing through all the 8.4 million species. But because of the bloody fool attitude and egotistic mind, man thinks he is supreme and wants to control and win the cosmic energy which is source of his life. And blunt truth is that a child can not become father of his own father!!!!!.
Let me start from the birth of a child of a human being in present day society. Mother gives birth to a child. 1st myth of the society starts. All the societies and religions go on harping that ‘Mother’ is the most beautiful and important creation of the ‘God’ and I agree that it is necessary to harp this continuously and at each platform of life. Why? Because that is a necessary evil and so required – suppose a woman refuses to become a mother, what will happen of the overflowing cosmic energy which wants to manifest itself to continue the ‘Divine Play’ or ‘Leela’of ‘Ishwar’ – soon she is going to refuse her privilege of becoming mother – thanks to ‘Woman-Liberation –Movement’- I am a58 yrs. married man with 3 children, but till now not able to understand, from whom she wants liberation – according to my experience and understanding, she wants to be liberated from motherhood and household work – and see ‘Test-tube’ babies, ‘Surrogated Motherhood’ has even started and soon we are going to have ‘Designer babies’ made to order in a bio-engineering plant with free home delivery service in a unbreakable but bio-degradable packing. latest finding declares today’s modern woman uses 500 chemicals on face & body plus certain implants not to look beautiful but to look sexy.(don’t be angry- I also love my mother - the most). And if this world has become hell, then greatest contribution in making the world hell is by a mother. But its converse is also true, a mother can make this world a heaven also but that is a diminishing phenomenon now a day, but it is also true. Indian wisdom knew it from the olden times.
Mother’s love in ‘Sanskrit’ is called: ‘Mamta: mam+ta; meaning feeling of my-ness or selfishness, while ‘Father’s love is called: ‘Vatsalyta: Vat + salyta: Air + Same-ness or equality. Remember (1) It is easy to become a mother but very difficult to become a father. (2) Mother makes a child dependent on her, while father tries and makes a child independent.
Let us understand the logic given by the leading ‘Psychologists’, ‘Thinkers’ ‘Doctors’, ‘Behaviorism Experts’ and ‘Spiritualists’ in detail. Mother is the 1st ‘Guru’ of the child. Mother- Child relationship is considered most precious and sacred – Why? Mother is the first food of the child and food is the basic need for survival. A new born child can not speak but can hear sound, can see, can smell, can taste and feel but can not resolve and understand these informations from the 5 senses because his mind has not developed but has just started to develop. But his body intelligence starts working from the moment he comes out of his/ her mother’s womb because cosmos wants to survive the new arrival. His conscious mind is developing but his sub-conscious mind and body intelligence is there that is why he immediately starts sucking milk from his mother’s breast. Soon he will learn that his/ her mother likes his certain activities and is irritated with some other activities. And as child is totally dependent on mother for survival a child has to be a quick learner. So he soon learns when the mother is feeling happy and when she feels irritated – which of his activities are acceptable and gives joy to the mother and which of the activities are not acceptable and creates unhappiness. Remember feelings are to be felt from the core of the being or heart and child’s feelings are fully developed otherwise he can’t survive. He can recognize his mother from the warmth of his mother’s body and he can recognize his/ her mother’s heart beats as he has heard them for 9 months inside the womb. That is why a child stops weeping when his/ her mother embraces him/ her and keeps him near her medical heart, the blood pumping organ. He/ she starts understanding that his smile gives happiness and he gets warm hug of his mother, he gets attention and love, his weeping gives him food. But his weeping with different pitch of sound, for urine or shit, he gets attention with some irritation for change of nappies.
So child learns to act accordingly – he repeats falsely the actions which gives joy to his mother and learns repressing the other actions which are not acceptable. In short he has learned to exhibit false face, emotions and actions, suppression and other mind games & lies from his own mother for survival. A child is very sensitive and fragile which gives him a fear for security and unprotected ness. A child knows the language of weeping for all his needs and requirements – and a weeping child is not liked by his mother and other family members. So he gets mild and on few occasions a harsh punishment. And to avoid this punishment he starts repressing his feelings and start diminishing his sensitivity. As feelings and sensitivity is the domain of ‘Heart’ so starts to live heartlessly but with messy mind. Child’s 1st year completed and now his future years.
He starts speaking words, understands mothers language, recognizes certain objects, and has learned to walk means mind has developed to the present required capacity so his needs, demands and desires will also grow accordingly. And a new phenomenon has started. As a child is the future of the family, society, community, nation and world so his all the demands which are necessities until now have to be met.
Now, as all of his demands are met – some after his asking and others even before his asking. A child starts thinking that he is the most important member of the family neighborhood and society and is convinced that he is the center and all others move
around him. And soon he begins to think that whole existence is made just for him and he has simply to ask and all of his demands are going to be fulfilled. And as he grows, some of his demands become complicated and even dangerous specially after joining primary school and later secondary school. He learns comparison and starts comparing himself with others especially with the children who are richer monetarily but he could not understand the reason. It becomes difficult - more difficult and impossible to meet all his demands. And the new feeling of hopelessness and frustration starts building in him. Due to this new tension, his immature mind starts to think he is being cheated. He thinks he is being dethroned from his earlier status. And if a 2nd child is born the problem becomes more complicated. Now he is no more the cynosure of the parents, family and neighborhood. His status has been snatched by the new child. This is the reason why older children start teasing, pinching and even hitting the new child.
Problem becomes real nightmare as the child is no more the centre and cynosure but his subconscious mind goes on believing that he is still the centre and cynosure of the family. Problem has become psychological as memory has gone deep into subconscious. So child becomes obstinate, arrogant and uses all the tantrums and techniques to convince his parents and other family members. Mother and grandparents becomes his tools for meeting his illogical demands and desires as they are soft hearted and do not use logic, accepting the demand is easy way out for them. Their prestige does not get lowered in the eyes of the child. At this stage a child even learns stealing, bribery, hiding facts, politics, cheating and lies to meet his demands thanks to the preachings and sat-sang of his/ her 1st Sad-guru- mother, schoolmates, some of his other family members and society.
13 yrs. completed, now he is in his 14th year and a new problem of puberty has manifested in his body. He is totally confused – he starts feeling adult all of sudden but family and society and laws of the land still treat him as a child – he could not understand what is happening – but certainly he can feel the physiological & biological, psychological and emotional changes but he could not understand and resolve the changes and the impact of changes. Adults don’t allow their company as he is still a child in their eyes – and he does not like the company of children as he thinks himself as an adult. His dreams have become colored in place of black & white. he does not know what to do. Actually this Life Energy is the original creative energy of cosmos and society should give genuine education through genuine teachers but every society, every religion condemns this life force and has suppressed from long-long time so every member of the present sick society goes on suppressing in place of understanding this sacred energy. And his consultants are immature child of his age, films and T.V. serials (money minting show business). And it is proved by science as well as spiritualism that whatever is suppressed goes on collecting and becomes a reservoir of energy and erupts through other channels with volcanic force. It is true with this energy also – this sacred and life creating energy enters in the domain of mind (in place of body and heart )and mind messes up everything, so mind has made it into time pass, entertainment and big market as every thing in present society has been converted into money minting industry. So pornography, prostitution and perversions, have become the new religion and fashion of the society and rave parties are the new craze.
Everybody is pretending and think life will teach them the change whe time comes. If he is lucky and in good company of friends then ok otherwise he may spoil himself with misinformation’s. And all this changes makes him slight mature and he starts thinking that he can take his own decisions and often does mistakes because of immaturity, over confidence and obstinacy of proving his/ her adulthood. It becomes very difficult to convince him/ her at this stage, so starts behaving in most irresponsible, arrogant and confronting ways. Now again role of mothers - mothers start defending them, hiding facts from father, supporting his/ her lies and goes on pretending that nothing is wrong . She believes things will improve with time because she herself does not understand the gravity of the problem, and even after becoming mother lives under the consultancy of her own mother. So father has to fight against the mother-children-mother-in-law union, alone.
In colleges’ children refines their negative traits and after completing the education one new normal sick person with 50 faces (Ravan had only 10) is ready to serve and contribute to the already normal sick society with 100 faces and evolution is going on. There is a very famous saying, “History repeats itself”. So again new cycle will start and nobody will think and realize one more generation has been wasted. On the contrary some new and novel methods will be invented to downgrade the society to new lows. And this vicious circle goes on till some enlightened soul with fresh fragrance appears but to be murdered again - But sure emergence of a new organized religion, cult or sect bearing the name of the enlightened soul takes place and old game starts again.
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Thanks for reading. I want to declare that these are my personal views, without bias and without malice towards anyone.
Feel free to forward to send to your near and dear ones but without changing the contents and credentials.
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Regards,
K.K.Sharma (Author)
Alias: Swami Krishnanand Saraswati
URL: Krishnanand101.blogspot.com
E-mail : kksharma1469@yahoo.co.in
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URL: Krishnanand101.blogspot.com
E-mail: kksharma1469@yahoo.co.in
(Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is mystery. And today? Today is a gift of Cosmos. That’s why we call it Present. So start living in present and feel the wonder’s in your life.)
12/ 11/ 2009
PROBLEMS, MYTHS AND FACTS OF PRESENT DAY LIFE
Hi Friends,
Allow me to discuss problems, myths and facts of modern day life. I know everybody wants joys of life but unless and until we increase our understanding problem, myths and facts are going to remain as it is. I don’t claim anything; I just want your valuable time and a humble request to read this ‘Essay’ unto last. While reading one thing should be kept in mind- (a) All things are subject to interpretation; whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth (b) present day society is living with mind and forgotten heart completely. (c) I am not talking about what the society should be, I am talking about where we have reached. You may feel that things have been exaggerated beco’z we are the part of the same society and every mind thinks differently. It is easy to deny but require courage to accept the reality. And when reality is accepted in its naked totality, then only one can think of change otherwise who wants to disturb his dreams – and our ugly master ‘MIND’ does not believe in change- its trinity is ‘habit – repetition – and subconscious.’
Sigmund Freud has said, “Modern man takes birth with an already sick mind and at the maximum he can be made a normally mad person but can not be cured fully of his insanity.” But Indian wisdom does not agree with him and declares that man does not take birth as a sick minded person but he definitely takes birth in a sick society. And environment of the present society, community, modern education, morality, organized religion and market based culture turns him into a person with sick mentality. When he crosses certain norms and limits he becomes fully mad and mental asylum is the only answer, where he/ she can be treated to return his normally mad status – so that he becomes fit to live in the same society and so again can become fully mad or to commit suicide.
Indian wisdom says that this madness is the result of the deep division of his personality. Present day man is not a single individual but 2 or more persons are residing in his single body or ‘Split Personality’. And always there is a continuous fight going on between the different personalities of the single person. Present day person has broken his bridge with the ‘Heart’ and identified himself totally with the mind and living from the ‘Mental Centre’ and so has become normally mad person as defined by Sigmund Freud.
When a child is born he is living from heart mechanism and that is the reason a child is innocent, beautiful, radiant and with overflowing joy. But present day man systematically locks the heart and destroys the key and learns the cunning and artificial mind’s language and games. All other living species are natural and normal and live with laws of ‘Cosmic Energy’ except most developed mind human beings. Why?
Cosmic Energy manifests itself in many forms of life. According to Indian wisdom in 84,00,000 forms but according to science in approximately 90,00,000 forms but immediately adds that ‘Indian Wisdom’ may be more correct.
Human beings is one form out of 84,00,000 species, so in the eyes of existence there is no qualitative difference but only quantitative difference as same cosmic energy is flowing through all the 8.4 million species. But because of the bloody fool attitude and egotistic mind, man thinks he is supreme and wants to control and win the cosmic energy which is source of his life. And blunt truth is that a child can not become father of his own father!!!!!.
Let me start from the birth of a child of a human being in present day society. Mother gives birth to a child. 1st myth of the society starts. All the societies and religions go on harping that ‘Mother’ is the most beautiful and important creation of the ‘God’ and I agree that it is necessary to harp this continuously and at each platform of life. Why? Because that is a necessary evil and so required – suppose a woman refuses to become a mother, what will happen of the overflowing cosmic energy which wants to manifest itself to continue the ‘Divine Play’ or ‘Leela’of ‘Ishwar’ – soon she is going to refuse her privilege of becoming mother – thanks to ‘Woman-Liberation –Movement’- I am a58 yrs. married man with 3 children, but till now not able to understand, from whom she wants liberation – according to my experience and understanding, she wants to be liberated from motherhood and household work – and see ‘Test-tube’ babies, ‘Surrogated Motherhood’ has even started and soon we are going to have ‘Designer babies’ made to order in a bio-engineering plant with free home delivery service in a unbreakable but bio-degradable packing. latest finding declares today’s modern woman uses 500 chemicals on face & body plus certain implants not to look beautiful but to look sexy.(don’t be angry- I also love my mother - the most). And if this world has become hell, then greatest contribution in making the world hell is by a mother. But its converse is also true, a mother can make this world a heaven also but that is a diminishing phenomenon now a day, but it is also true. Indian wisdom knew it from the olden times.
Mother’s love in ‘Sanskrit’ is called: ‘Mamta: mam+ta; meaning feeling of my-ness or selfishness, while ‘Father’s love is called: ‘Vatsalyta: Vat + salyta: Air + Same-ness or equality. Remember (1) It is easy to become a mother but very difficult to become a father. (2) Mother makes a child dependent on her, while father tries and makes a child independent.
Let us understand the logic given by the leading ‘Psychologists’, ‘Thinkers’ ‘Doctors’, ‘Behaviorism Experts’ and ‘Spiritualists’ in detail. Mother is the 1st ‘Guru’ of the child. Mother- Child relationship is considered most precious and sacred – Why? Mother is the first food of the child and food is the basic need for survival. A new born child can not speak but can hear sound, can see, can smell, can taste and feel but can not resolve and understand these informations from the 5 senses because his mind has not developed but has just started to develop. But his body intelligence starts working from the moment he comes out of his/ her mother’s womb because cosmos wants to survive the new arrival. His conscious mind is developing but his sub-conscious mind and body intelligence is there that is why he immediately starts sucking milk from his mother’s breast. Soon he will learn that his/ her mother likes his certain activities and is irritated with some other activities. And as child is totally dependent on mother for survival a child has to be a quick learner. So he soon learns when the mother is feeling happy and when she feels irritated – which of his activities are acceptable and gives joy to the mother and which of the activities are not acceptable and creates unhappiness. Remember feelings are to be felt from the core of the being or heart and child’s feelings are fully developed otherwise he can’t survive. He can recognize his mother from the warmth of his mother’s body and he can recognize his/ her mother’s heart beats as he has heard them for 9 months inside the womb. That is why a child stops weeping when his/ her mother embraces him/ her and keeps him near her medical heart, the blood pumping organ. He/ she starts understanding that his smile gives happiness and he gets warm hug of his mother, he gets attention and love, his weeping gives him food. But his weeping with different pitch of sound, for urine or shit, he gets attention with some irritation for change of nappies.
So child learns to act accordingly – he repeats falsely the actions which gives joy to his mother and learns repressing the other actions which are not acceptable. In short he has learned to exhibit false face, emotions and actions, suppression and other mind games & lies from his own mother for survival. A child is very sensitive and fragile which gives him a fear for security and unprotected ness. A child knows the language of weeping for all his needs and requirements – and a weeping child is not liked by his mother and other family members. So he gets mild and on few occasions a harsh punishment. And to avoid this punishment he starts repressing his feelings and start diminishing his sensitivity. As feelings and sensitivity is the domain of ‘Heart’ so starts to live heartlessly but with messy mind. Child’s 1st year completed and now his future years.
He starts speaking words, understands mothers language, recognizes certain objects, and has learned to walk means mind has developed to the present required capacity so his needs, demands and desires will also grow accordingly. And a new phenomenon has started. As a child is the future of the family, society, community, nation and world so his all the demands which are necessities until now have to be met.
Now, as all of his demands are met – some after his asking and others even before his asking. A child starts thinking that he is the most important member of the family neighborhood and society and is convinced that he is the center and all others move
around him. And soon he begins to think that whole existence is made just for him and he has simply to ask and all of his demands are going to be fulfilled. And as he grows, some of his demands become complicated and even dangerous specially after joining primary school and later secondary school. He learns comparison and starts comparing himself with others especially with the children who are richer monetarily but he could not understand the reason. It becomes difficult - more difficult and impossible to meet all his demands. And the new feeling of hopelessness and frustration starts building in him. Due to this new tension, his immature mind starts to think he is being cheated. He thinks he is being dethroned from his earlier status. And if a 2nd child is born the problem becomes more complicated. Now he is no more the cynosure of the parents, family and neighborhood. His status has been snatched by the new child. This is the reason why older children start teasing, pinching and even hitting the new child.
Problem becomes real nightmare as the child is no more the centre and cynosure but his subconscious mind goes on believing that he is still the centre and cynosure of the family. Problem has become psychological as memory has gone deep into subconscious. So child becomes obstinate, arrogant and uses all the tantrums and techniques to convince his parents and other family members. Mother and grandparents becomes his tools for meeting his illogical demands and desires as they are soft hearted and do not use logic, accepting the demand is easy way out for them. Their prestige does not get lowered in the eyes of the child. At this stage a child even learns stealing, bribery, hiding facts, politics, cheating and lies to meet his demands thanks to the preachings and sat-sang of his/ her 1st Sad-guru- mother, schoolmates, some of his other family members and society.
13 yrs. completed, now he is in his 14th year and a new problem of puberty has manifested in his body. He is totally confused – he starts feeling adult all of sudden but family and society and laws of the land still treat him as a child – he could not understand what is happening – but certainly he can feel the physiological & biological, psychological and emotional changes but he could not understand and resolve the changes and the impact of changes. Adults don’t allow their company as he is still a child in their eyes – and he does not like the company of children as he thinks himself as an adult. His dreams have become colored in place of black & white. he does not know what to do. Actually this Life Energy is the original creative energy of cosmos and society should give genuine education through genuine teachers but every society, every religion condemns this life force and has suppressed from long-long time so every member of the present sick society goes on suppressing in place of understanding this sacred energy. And his consultants are immature child of his age, films and T.V. serials (money minting show business). And it is proved by science as well as spiritualism that whatever is suppressed goes on collecting and becomes a reservoir of energy and erupts through other channels with volcanic force. It is true with this energy also – this sacred and life creating energy enters in the domain of mind (in place of body and heart )and mind messes up everything, so mind has made it into time pass, entertainment and big market as every thing in present society has been converted into money minting industry. So pornography, prostitution and perversions, have become the new religion and fashion of the society and rave parties are the new craze.
Everybody is pretending and think life will teach them the change whe time comes. If he is lucky and in good company of friends then ok otherwise he may spoil himself with misinformation’s. And all this changes makes him slight mature and he starts thinking that he can take his own decisions and often does mistakes because of immaturity, over confidence and obstinacy of proving his/ her adulthood. It becomes very difficult to convince him/ her at this stage, so starts behaving in most irresponsible, arrogant and confronting ways. Now again role of mothers - mothers start defending them, hiding facts from father, supporting his/ her lies and goes on pretending that nothing is wrong . She believes things will improve with time because she herself does not understand the gravity of the problem, and even after becoming mother lives under the consultancy of her own mother. So father has to fight against the mother-children-mother-in-law union, alone.
In colleges’ children refines their negative traits and after completing the education one new normal sick person with 50 faces (Ravan had only 10) is ready to serve and contribute to the already normal sick society with 100 faces and evolution is going on. There is a very famous saying, “History repeats itself”. So again new cycle will start and nobody will think and realize one more generation has been wasted. On the contrary some new and novel methods will be invented to downgrade the society to new lows. And this vicious circle goes on till some enlightened soul with fresh fragrance appears but to be murdered again - But sure emergence of a new organized religion, cult or sect bearing the name of the enlightened soul takes place and old game starts again.
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K.K.Sharma (Author)
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