SYM<-> PATHY

SYM<-> PATHY

By SKNS (International website going to be launched very soon)

The most pathological word invented till date.

According to ‘Oxford Dictionary’ it means: ‘The ability to share or arouse another’s emotions or sensations; pity or tenderness towards a sufferer to increase liking for each other.

So, converse of this simply means: ‘Who does not show sympathy instantly becomes a subject of disliking for the sufferer. (Every thing in this manifested universe can coexist with its polar opposite like a shadow. So, to understand anything the opposite also is to be considered).

Human behavioral science says that sympathy inflates the ego of sufferer as well as of sympathizer.

Eg. (i). A child fakes sickness to get sympathy of parents to get food/ toy choicest gifts/sick leave from the school.

(ii). Adults fakes sickness, wife/ Husband fakes sickness, modern relationship follows the same art to get sympathy and favours. You can take hundreds of examples from your daily life.

(iii) Latest research in medical science opines, patients with less sympathy recuperates faster and precisely that is the reason why visitors time in hospitals is being reduced and also you can not bring anything for patients except medicines.

There was an incidence in the life of Gautama the Buddha. A poor old blind woman came to take the blessings so that her eyesight is restored. The Buddha asked his doctor disciple to check her eyes but did not offer any sympathy. The woman became angry and said that I have come to you for your sympathy and blessings. I don’t have any problem with my blindness. Whole village looks after me and my daily needs and I am the oldest and most respectful widow of this village. Gautama the Buddha smiled and convinced the poor old lady to check her eyes. Obviously the lady could not refuse in front of the villagers and thousands of the Buddha’s disciples.

Ultimately her blindness of so many years was cured. And the disciple doctor thanked Gautama the Buddha for his wisdom and apt action as her blindness might not be curable after one year.

Thanks for reading till end.

R-E-L-A-T-I-O-N-S-H-I-P OR A-R-T OF B-O-N-D-I-N-G

R-E-L-A-T-I-O-N-S-H-I-P OR ART OF B-O-N-D-I-N-G

By: SKNS (International website going to be launched very soon)

Do you want to decide what happens to your life or invent your ‘Time Machine’? If yes, then intense relationship is the key to your future/ Time Machine.

(Relationship means: family/ Personal/Neighborhood/ Friendship/ Live-In/ Political/ Global/ Pseudo/ H..o/ Le…an or any relationship you can think/ imagine)

Technology Required:

1. Enhance your understanding beyond people’s madness, limitations and capabilities both physiologically as well as psychologically. All people around you are beautiful but once in while they want to go crazy for few minutes/ hours (Pagalpanti zaroori hai). If you don’t understand human psyche, either you have to waste your valuable time in fighting with them and ultimately loose them or go on with pseudo/false relationship ( u scratch my back and I will scratch yours in return.

2. Include everybody into your understanding.

3. As your circle/ field of play/ leela increases, interaction with other people increases, complexity of human psyche/ e^^g^^o increases exponentially.

4. Physiologically all human are almost similar but psychologically all are different (No 2 individuals are same).

5. Aristotle logic has failed absolutely after the discovery of electron.

Thanks for reading till end.

Happy Holi

H A P P Y H O L I

Foolon Kay Rangon Kee Rangoli

Shivamrut Kee Bhaang Kee Golee

Kaanch Kay Glass May Ice-cube Bolee

Krishnanand Kee Baansuri Say Saraswati Bolee

Prema-bhakti Say Gopiyon kee Bheegee Cholee

Sabko Mubarak 2012 kee Happy Holi



Swami Krishnand Saraswati

Kksharma1469@yahoo.co.in

Krishan.sharma.vats@gmail.com

Krishnand101.blogspot.com

खोजता हूँ प्रभु को जन्मों-जन्मों से

खोजता हूँ प्रभु को जन्मों-जन्मों से

कभी उसकी झलक दिखती है/ कभी दूर किसी तारे के पास उसकी आकृति दिखती है/ कभी उसकी छाया दिखाई पड़ती है/ लेकिन जब तक उस जगह पहुँचता हूँ जहाँ उसकी छाया थी, तब तक वह और दूर जा चुका होता है/ जब तक वहां पहुंचता हूँ जहाँ उसकी झलक दिखी, तब तक वह ना मालूम कहाँ खो चुका होता है/ ऐसे जन्म-जन्म भटक कर मेरी यात्रा पूरी हो गई है, और में उस द्वार पर पहुँच जो प्रभु का धाम है/

मैं उसकी सीढियां चढ़ गया और उसके द्वार की अपने हाथ मे ले ली, और जैसे ही में सांकल बजाने को ही था, तभी मेरे मान मे सवाल उठा कि यदि आज प्रभु मिल गया, तो फिर आगे क्या होगा ? आगे फिर मै क्या करूंगा ? अब तक तो उसी की खोज मे जन्म-जन्म बिताये/ मै व्यस्त था/ मै दोड़ रहा था/ मै कुछ कर रहा था और कुछ पा रहा था/ होने की, becomming की एक लम्बी यात्रा थी, उसमे मै रसलीन था/ मंजिल थी आगे, उसे पाने मे अहंकार को तृप्ति थी/ लेकिन अगर आज प्रभु मिल ही गया, तो कल, फिर कल नहीं होगा/ कोई भविष्य नहीं? कोई आशा नहीं? कोई मंजिल नहीं?

तो मैने वह सांकल आहिस्ता से छोड़ दी,कि कहीं कोई आवाज ना हो जाए/ अपने जूते हाथ मे उठा लिए और दबे पांव सीढियां उतर गया,कहीं कोई आवाज ना हो जाए और कहीं द्वार खुल ही ना जाएँ / और नीचे उतर कर में जोर से भगा उस घर से दूर , और पलट कर भी नहीं देखा, जब तक उस द्वार की झलक दिखाई देनी बंद ना हो गयी/

अब भी मै इश्वर को खोजता हूँ/ अब भी मै गुरुओं से पूछता हूँ कहाँ है उसका मार्ग ? और भली भांति मुझे पहचान है उसके घर की/ लेकिन अब में उसके घर के रास्ते से बच कर ही उसे खोजता हूँ, कि कहीं वह मिल ही ना जाए/ कहीं वह मिल ही ना जाए/

सत्य या मत

सत्य या मत

जैसे ही सत्य को शब्दों द्वारा प्रकट किया जाता, है वह मत हो जाता है / इसलिए सभी शास्त्र मत हैं, चाहे वह किसी भी धर्म के हों - शास्त्र यानि मतों (opinion) का सग्रह/ कोई भी शास्त्र सत्य का संग्रह नहीं है, ना हो सकता है /

काश दुनिया के सभी धर्मों को मानने वाले यह सत्य समझ जाएँ कि उनका जो शास्त्र ( Religious book) है वह एक मत है सत्य नहीं या केवल एक इशारा मात्र है सत्य की और / तब निश्चित ही धर्म के नाम पर आपसी झगडे बंद हो सकते हैं / क्योंकि हर धर्म और उसका शास्त्र दावा करता है सत्य का - दो सत्य कैसे हो सकते हैं - झगडे खडे हो जाते हैं /
( १. सत्य अनंत है शब्द सीमित होता है /
२. जैसे ही शब्द बोला जाता है , तो सुनने वाले के हाथों मे पहुँच जाता है और हर सुनने वाला अपनी व्याख्या कर लेता है /)
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SOS- Awake, Rise and Help to save India and yourself

17/06/2011
Awake, rise and help to save India and yourself…….

India’s present biggest problem is corruption and its son/ daughter – Black money and immorality.

Q. What is the cause?
A. Bad governance – absence of enforcement of laws – pseudo morality

Indian wisdom says;
1. Rajan kaalasya kaarnnam
2. Jaisaa Raaja vaisee Praja

Western wisdom says;
1. Power corrupts absolutely
2. And as per theory based on his research and observations of a westerner :

a.15% people are corrupt, immoral and criminals – they can’t be changed
b.15% people are non-corrupt, moral and honest – they can’t be changed
c.70% people are pseudo peoples, opportunists

When Govt. is in the hands of corrupt, immoral & criminals:

15% (a) + 70% (c) i.e. 85% become (a) type

When Govt. is in the hands of non-corrupt, moral and honest

15% (b) + 70% (c) i.e. 85% become (b) type

In India Ram-rajya was the best and ideal

What was the Governance model in Ram-rajya?

Raja (King) governed with the help of his mantri’s and santri’s ( ministers, army and police) and there was ASHT (8) RISHI MANDAL TO KEEP A HAWK EYE ON THE KING AND HIS MANTRI”S AND SANTRI”S

Now you awake, think, decide and participate in the governance of your country and help in bringing Ram-rajya again.
K.K.Sharma
Kksharma1469@yahoo.co.in
Krishan.sharma.vats@gmail.com
URL: krishnanand101.blogspot.com

Commonest word uttered by everybody…. “LOVE”

06/02/2011
Commonest word uttered by everybody…. “LOVE”

There are two types of love.
C.S.Lewis has divided love into these two kinds:
1. Need – Love
2. Gift – love
Abrahm Maslow also divides love into two kinds
1. Deficiency – Love
2. Being – Love
The distinction is significant and has to be understood.

The need-love or deficiency-love depends on the other so it is not true love – it is a need and it is immature love. As it depends on other, you use other as a means. You exploit; you manipulate; you dominate the other so the other is reduced and almost destroyed. Same is done by the other. So it only appears like love or can be safely said as pretended love.

The other one is true love, mature love. In this love you start loving rather than needing. Hence you start overflowing, sharing, giving. The gestalt changes, the emphasis is totally different. This type of loving person is like a fully blossomed flower who gives its fragrance to all and even to the heel which crushes it.

And the most important thing to be remembered is 1st type of love should reach 2nd type otherwise it will get itself converted into “HATE”.
This is the reason hate is seen between two friends, Husband-wife, Parents-children and every other relationship.

K.K.Sharma alias